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Finding and keeping a life partner

I just read an e-mail from my friend. She had written in the e-mail that she came across a great email and would like to share with us. After reading it, I too think its great advice. So I would like to share it with everyone else. Enjoy! FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER by Dov Heller, M.A. When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right! If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a profound truth here. Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the lo...

I totally don't understand

I totally don't understand how these people thinks.... 1. Ladies who are married and yet..... I know there are some ladies (or men) out there who are married and yet they are have other bf or gf outside le. I know that some of you will try to defend yourselves saying that your spouse is not good to you la, they nag too much la, they this and they that. You think that you are perfect meh? When in love, everything bad will also become a strength or attraction. Once you are no longer in love, even the good points also become bad points. Cant stand these people. 2. Those who are not married but goes after those who are married or engaged. Come on la, why would one go after someone who is already married (or worse have kids liaw) or those who are engaged to be married. Trying to prove something issit? 3. People who has a big mouth and likes to comment on everything and everything (even those that doesn't concern them) I think that these are the people who doesn't have a life to ...

Weekend Mode

Bi and me went down to Miri last weekend. Normally ho, we don't really go Miri coz its like 2 hour drive to Miri from Bandar and its really tiring. But Bi wanna go get his Birthday gift and you know me la, I will never miss out on a chance to go jalan jalan. Another reason is that Bi wanted to visit his physician (Doctor lo) but then unfortunately, the clinic was closed. Congrats to Aaron who was promoted and thanks for the drinks! I prefer the first order since it has more pineappble juice. The 2nd order tasted so yucky, luckily for the kind waiter who gave us a cup of pineapple juice (its more like 1/4 cup) Bi was so happy to get his phone and now he cant stop telling me how much he loves his phone and keep showing off to me lagi la. Some pics take over the weekend. Taken at Popular bookshop.(can you see that I am using blue lens?) Taken near Boulevard Bi's house mango tree. The mangoes are damn sweet and no....how you say ah.....roots/fibre. STi is very kilat and glossy coz ...

Kids....these days

Disclaimer: Please do not read this post if you are easily offended. At anytime that you feel discomfort, you can move your cursor to that little X over at the top right hand corner and click on it. Kids (teens or whatever) these days ah, sigh, they are ..... (I call them kids coz they are younger than I am) *I am not that old, ok?* What is this world turning into? Everything is so messed up. If they are our so called next generation ho, then we all are so screwed. (Pardon my language) Whenever I go to the shopping malls, I will see a few genres. Goth, kawaii, rappers wanna be, queen bees, its like the shopping malls have turned into a huge high school! And the kids....hai!!!!!! Last week I went to the cinema looking forward to watching Transformer 2 and the night was marred by a few teenagers who are gangster wanna be. I feel like smacking them and ask them to go home and study hard and be someone who might actually be useful to the society instead of trying to be a bad ass. (and even...

H1N1.....Parents beware

Got it from here . 1 Death 27 New cases Bringing the grand total to 93 cases Doesn't people pay any attention at all? Don't you care about your kids and their health? I went to the cinema to watch Transformers 2 on Monday and what I saw there really infuriates me. Coz I saw children of all ages ranging from toddlers to young children. Don't the parents read the news? Don't they know that children are at higher risk to the swine flu H1N1? Common!!!!! Think with your head la. Not with your bum. I am trying my best not to go out to enclosed and crowded places (cinemas being one of those) I know that some parents would say that their children have been bugging them to bring them to the movies or whatever. Do you always listen to your children? Do you go to them for financial advice? or even career advice? No right? This is when the parents should step in and explain this grave situation to your children. When I saw all these inconsiderate parents bring out their children...

Final Fantasy VII:Crisis Core

For the past few nights, I was so kuai and stayed at home. Coz I was friggin hooked on Crisis Core. Anyone still remember the game Final Fantasy VII with the main hero as Cloud? (released on Play Station back in 1997, I think) I was so hooked on that RPG game. You cant help but get drawn into the story and actually have feelings for all the characters. I still remember that I spent close to 60 hours for FF VII. (I prefer FF VII to FF VIII) The story line just enchants you. So back to Crisis Core. Its a prequel to FF VII. It took place some 7 or 8 years prior to FFVII events. It shows how the main character Zack met Cloud (main character in FFVII) Ever since I first started playing the game, which was last week, I have been waiting for the moment to show me how Zack and Cloud meets. I finally met Cloud last night. (in the game la) and also the way Zack meets Aerith (Aeris in FFVII, dunno why the name is a bit different though). Here lemme intro you some of the main charaters. Zack Aerit...

Trip to KL

I was away during the 1st week of June for Revenue Assurance & Fraud Management Seminar in KL. The seminar itself was not too bad. But during the seminar, I kinda have information overload. Too much information liaw. This is the first time that I stayed in a hotel alone. Its a king size bed and gosh, the bed feels so big with me sleeping alone in it. This is of Grand Millennium Hotel, which I stayed for 2 nights. The view from the door. The huge king size bed. (I know it doesn't look very big from this pic....but trust me it is huge!) Writing table/Dressing table The 'food' area (dunno what to call this area la) I like this reading chair. I saw one like this in Court Furniture costing arnd BND10o plus. I wanna get one for my room la (as if my room very big like that, haha) My face looking tired since I arrived at the hotel arnd 11pm plus le (next day have to wake up early lagi to attend the seminar le) Not bad la this hotel. I think its arnd RM400+ per night (luckily it...

Relief!

Big Big sigh of relief! NAME: LEN YEE YEN Semester Unit Code Unit Name Grade Semester 1 CPA114 INTERNATIONAL BUSINESS C Damn, this paper is very hard. I wasn't at all prepared man. Luckily still able to get credit muahahahaha!!!!! Lucky neh! Hmm, what should we do after badminton later?

Weird

Some people are just plain weird Like the things that they do. Its like for no purpose at all, can be said to be idiotic. Sad......

Superman & Supergirl & Bi's Birthday

Can't seem to sleep....although I am pretty tired. Gonna play badminton tomorrow again, looking forward to some serious sweating. Came back from the RA seminar session from KL last Friday night (or should I say early Saturday morning) It was very interesting, those issues that were discussed during the seminar. But yeah, not gonna bored anyone to tears. Thanks to Tianlun, Laurence and Alina for accompanying me while I was in KL (and thanks for all the free meals too, hehe) I had a great time catching up with you guys. Its been too long since we last meet up to have a chit chatting session. Missed you guys! There was quite a bit of sales going on in KL and got a couple of great deals as well. But the purchase of the trip I gotta say is the superman shirt!!!!!! Its original from DC Comics ok and its not only for kids. Bi = Superman (wo de superman) Artowawa = Supergirl (Bi's supergirl! P.S. Bi better not comment anything on this one) Superman & Supergirl Like I said, its DC o...

Things that I wanna blog about

Gosh! Seems like everyday also got something to do one. Am in the midst of moving my stuffs. So imagine the mess both at home and at office. Been having lots of dreams lately. Some good, some thoroughly disturbing......I think that most of my dreams are manifestations of my conscious thoughts. (sounds really deep eh?) I have many things that I thought that I wanna blog about. #1 I really don't like sore losers. Lami is suppose to be for fun, some sort of entertainment. Not for us to earn money or anything like that. So why pull such a face when you lose? Really spoil the whole night for others. #2 For those who smokes, please, please, PLEASE have respect for non-smokers. I don't like to judge people who smokes. Nor do I want to. But PLEASE, if you wanna die from lung cancer, by all means go ahead, don't drag those who doesn't smoke (but is breathing in your second smoke) to hell with you. Go outside and smoke la, don't do it inside the house with people around you. ...

Tire, Tiring, Tired

I am like so tired. I only have 14 more days till the exam for my 5th CPA paper. Man!!!! I cant help but think of how happy I am going to be when I finally pass all 6 papers for CPA. No more needs to take leave from my annual leave.....sigh....then I can use all 19 days for traveling...... Heaven!!!! I hate Mondays......Actually I hate all days except for Saturdays and nope I dun like Sundays coz the next day is Monday. So yeah..... I love Saturdays where I can sleep for the whole day or rather laze around in my bed for the whole day!!!!! *loves* I haven even posted anything about the annual dinner or my stay in empire hotel. That would have to wait till I finish exam. Tata (not the car yeah)

Movies watched and to watch!

Just got back from watching "Race to Witch Mountain" in Empire. I like this movie. My my, how Anna Sophia Robb had grown. I watched her in Bridge to Terabithia and thought that she is really pretty. She was also the little girl starring with Hilary Swank in 'The Reaping". She has such huge eyes. (wish mine is half that size) Anyway, it has a happy ending, so wat are you waiting for? Go watch it! Unfortunately, I missed 'Watchmen' and 'Dragonball'. Sigh! I heard a lot of criticism for Dragonball, but I really wanna watch it! Its Goku you know. I practically grow up with this animation. I still remember Goku's original name from his home planet 'Kak Gu Long' (hope my pinyin is alright, hahahaha) Guess I'll just have to wait for the clear copy of the DVD is released. Fast and Furious 4 will be release this Thursday! I am so excited! I have been waiting for this movie for the longest time. I am a big big fan of this Fast & Furious movi...

Ghost Stories

I love ghost stories. Ever since I was young. I have all the series from 1 till 17 or issit 18 of True Singapore Ghost Stories. I love watching ghost movies. No biggie for anyone, but I love to watch it at night and when I am all alone in my room.......woooooo SIOK! hahaha I would wait for the movie to scare me. But nowadays, the ghost movies are getting less and less scary. (Dunno whether issit because its getting boring and I can anticipate what would happen or issit I am getting bolder.) I absolutely love ghost stories. I remember a few year back, a group of us went on a trip to KK and Labuan. We sat around and told ghost stories. It was pretty scary (especially its in a strange place) and all the girls were sleept in the same room afterwards, sod the crampy bed. I came across this blog where it relates to your personal ghostly meetings. Its very interesting to read. Dont take my word for it, you go ahead and click on it and be prepared to be scared! Muahahahahaha

Migraine Generating Issues

I am emotionally unstable these days. (not that I am going insane or anything but I am extremely moody) I just realized the lengths someone would go for their family. Even if their family is at fault. Yeah, sure you would be angry with them yourself but against the outside world, you will defend them, even if they are wrong. No matter if the person is someone that you have known for a long time. It doesn't matter coz like everyone would say, family is flesh and blood. So yeah, family definitely is more important. (even if they are wrong) Another thing that I am dealing with (have been for the past couple of years) is people who hate (maybe not hate la, hate is a very strong word. more like dislike) me. How do you deal with that? Can you like them? Can you be so saint like as to ignore that little fact that they dislike you? Having issues are part of life. But how much issues can you deal with all at once? 2008 has not been very kind to me. I have receive so many set backs, back las...

Yak Yak Yak

Just a quick post coz I have to finish off those slides for the lecture tomorrow. These days there are a lot of things that are going through my mind. I really dislike a person. Not gonna name that person. But I find that person really pretentious. That was the impression that person gave me and that is the attitude that I have been receiving all these while. So yeah, not gonna change my mind about that person. Call me a stupid and stubborn person but no, I am not gonna budge in my opinion until I am proven wrong. I really hate lies and rumours, especially those that involves me. I wonder how come there are some people who can call everyone else pretty gals or handsome guys. Practically everyone le. That is so fake as well. How come there are people in this world who likes to portray that they are very poor and so pitiful? Sigh! I really hate it when anyone else mention that that so and so is so kelian (pitiful). Come one, I been through the exact same situation and I don't find my...

People who owe me money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know that its not good to complain early in the morning. But really ho! I cant stand people who borrowed money from you and not repaying the money. I am basically alright if they are really tight with their money and they can pay me back slowly and perhaps in installment. The kind of people that I detest are those that borrowed money, never return the money BUT still have money to live in big houses, drive new car (sorry make that afford to buy new car every now and then). And you know what they claimed? They have no money. But on the outside appearances, they have big house with nice furniture and fittings, nice car, wear extremely expensive watches (rolex, tissot, tag huer) Walan, got money to spend but no money to pay me back. These are the people who are the scumbags of the society! The more I type the more pissed off I get. The worst thing is that when they have nice things, they wont share it with you one. Even talk about you behind our back. That is the rewards that you get wh...

Things about me

Here are the rules - post this list on your profile replacing my answers with yours. Tag 25 people to do the same thing. Don't forget to tag me back! If I tagged YOU, it's because I want to know more about YOU! 1. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE? - Jennifer Aniston, Jennifer Love Hewit, Jennifer Lopez 2. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED? - This morning coz I really cant get up to work 3. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING? - of coz....its so cute 4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT? - lunch meat? What does that mean? I love all kinds of meat (And I mean all kind) 5. DO YOU HAVE KIDS?- - Not yet 6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU? - Why in the world would I not want to be with friends with me? 7. DO YOU USE SARCASM? - You think? 8. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS? - Should still be there 9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP? - Been there done that 10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL? - Honey Stars! 11. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF? - Logically I should but that ...