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Finding and keeping a life partner

I just read an e-mail from my friend. She had written in the e-mail that she came across a great email and would like to share with us. After reading it, I too think its great advice. So I would like to share it with everyone else. Enjoy! FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER by Dov Heller, M.A. When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right! If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a profound truth here. Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the lo...

I totally don't understand

I totally don't understand how these people thinks.... 1. Ladies who are married and yet..... I know there are some ladies (or men) out there who are married and yet they are have other bf or gf outside le. I know that some of you will try to defend yourselves saying that your spouse is not good to you la, they nag too much la, they this and they that. You think that you are perfect meh? When in love, everything bad will also become a strength or attraction. Once you are no longer in love, even the good points also become bad points. Cant stand these people. 2. Those who are not married but goes after those who are married or engaged. Come on la, why would one go after someone who is already married (or worse have kids liaw) or those who are engaged to be married. Trying to prove something issit? 3. People who has a big mouth and likes to comment on everything and everything (even those that doesn't concern them) I think that these are the people who doesn't have a life to ...

Weekend Mode

Bi and me went down to Miri last weekend. Normally ho, we don't really go Miri coz its like 2 hour drive to Miri from Bandar and its really tiring. But Bi wanna go get his Birthday gift and you know me la, I will never miss out on a chance to go jalan jalan. Another reason is that Bi wanted to visit his physician (Doctor lo) but then unfortunately, the clinic was closed. Congrats to Aaron who was promoted and thanks for the drinks! I prefer the first order since it has more pineappble juice. The 2nd order tasted so yucky, luckily for the kind waiter who gave us a cup of pineapple juice (its more like 1/4 cup) Bi was so happy to get his phone and now he cant stop telling me how much he loves his phone and keep showing off to me lagi la. Some pics take over the weekend. Taken at Popular bookshop.(can you see that I am using blue lens?) Taken near Boulevard Bi's house mango tree. The mangoes are damn sweet and no....how you say ah.....roots/fibre. STi is very kilat and glossy coz ...

Kids....these days

Disclaimer: Please do not read this post if you are easily offended. At anytime that you feel discomfort, you can move your cursor to that little X over at the top right hand corner and click on it. Kids (teens or whatever) these days ah, sigh, they are ..... (I call them kids coz they are younger than I am) *I am not that old, ok?* What is this world turning into? Everything is so messed up. If they are our so called next generation ho, then we all are so screwed. (Pardon my language) Whenever I go to the shopping malls, I will see a few genres. Goth, kawaii, rappers wanna be, queen bees, its like the shopping malls have turned into a huge high school! And the kids....hai!!!!!! Last week I went to the cinema looking forward to watching Transformer 2 and the night was marred by a few teenagers who are gangster wanna be. I feel like smacking them and ask them to go home and study hard and be someone who might actually be useful to the society instead of trying to be a bad ass. (and even...

H1N1.....Parents beware

Got it from here . 1 Death 27 New cases Bringing the grand total to 93 cases Doesn't people pay any attention at all? Don't you care about your kids and their health? I went to the cinema to watch Transformers 2 on Monday and what I saw there really infuriates me. Coz I saw children of all ages ranging from toddlers to young children. Don't the parents read the news? Don't they know that children are at higher risk to the swine flu H1N1? Common!!!!! Think with your head la. Not with your bum. I am trying my best not to go out to enclosed and crowded places (cinemas being one of those) I know that some parents would say that their children have been bugging them to bring them to the movies or whatever. Do you always listen to your children? Do you go to them for financial advice? or even career advice? No right? This is when the parents should step in and explain this grave situation to your children. When I saw all these inconsiderate parents bring out their children...