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A rather eye opening Sunday

I went out on an outing with a few of not my friends. Why I call them not my friends? Coz they are not my friends lo. They are friends with someone I am friends with.

It was such a nice Sunday. We were supposed to have lunch n watch a movie together. There are 4 girls and 4 guys including me and Bi. Basically, with the exception of another girl who made polite conversations with me, the other 2 totally ignored me. (I mean TOTALLY, caps, larger font and bold for emphasis) So yeah, was feeling quite left out at that stage. But they were really mean. They left to go shopping without asking me whether I wanna go or not. BF had the cheek to ask me how come I din follow them shopping since I love shopping. (Hey come on, I am not a puppy who has to follow them at their heels) TSK TSK....no courtesy.

Soooo....anyway, the movie supposedly starts at 3:00pm and we are to collect the tickets half an hour before the movie starts. Surprisingly, those girls did not want to go collect the tickets although they are already in the mall. Their reason is that they have not finish shopping yet......as if the shoes or whatever they are looking at will fly away or suddenly finish stock. So we at the restaurant has to rush there to get the tickets. After rushing the payments and queuing (luckily the queue is quite short), someone booked the wrong time for the movie! Instead of 3pm, they booked the 5pm one...... WOAW!!!!!! Imagine my disgust and anger of whoever is so stupid as to book the wrong time? I am already being ignored and NO movie to watch?????? (Volcano is erupting already)

Continue with the story, so we met up with those 3 girls. Then the whole gang went to look for games, then those 3 girls wanted to go to some shops, my friend asked them how come they did not ask me to go along with them? I dunno which girl, did not bother to turn back to them as I was walking to the toilet said loudly "DID SHE (meaning me) SAY SHE WANNA GO MEH?" And asked me (in a rather loud voice might I add) "JENNIFER YOU WANNA GO WITH US MEH?" If its you in this case, will you still go along with them? Like they did not ignored you and did not just asked you in a rather rude voice? Of course not!

So my Sunday was totally ruined Mood was ruined.....a Sunday gone.....arghhhh! I have so much pent up energy on the following Monday that I played badminton till like 9pm.

Another comment from a person really hurt me on Sunday. Not gonna mention who or what that person said. But it really hurts.

Lesson # 1: Do not ever make the stupid mistake of going out with those people under any circumstances

Lesson # 2: Do not ever try to spend your pent up energy in such a manner as I am still hurting from my badminton session on Monday (and today is Wednesday already)

And oh....I forgot to write something..... I hope it rains this Sunday......heavily at that. Thank you very much. And how was your Sunday?

Comments

Josephine said…
Take it easy Jen....
I believe in Karma. U should too. Then u'd feel better. Y waste ur energy getting angry over such people who do not deserve your attention...
Josephine said…
Take it easy Jen....
I believe in Karma. U should too. Then u'd feel better. Y waste ur energy getting angry over such people who do not deserve your attention...
Artowawa said…
Yup yup.....Karma! muahaha
ngo said…
Hi holor,

as u know, one of d gal is v de blur since the day u met her(from d way she play lami...,play mahjong..handle matter)..

she thought u wanna spend more time wif ur ah bi.....but who knows her thought is wrong...

She told me she feel sorry and hope can hang out some other times.and she appreciate u too for the badminton games as well.

umm...chubby chobs??hehe
OV said…
Come on! As mentioned they're not your friends therefore they don't even know you. What for they shall be there to please you?

Perhaps you're not being friendly at all in the first place? You shall approach and introduce yourself (IN FACT) which you want them to do so.

Lesson# 1: Don't JUDGE someone without even know them.

Lesson# 2: Don't simply CURSE someone as 1 day it will all point back to yourself.
Artowawa said…
No need for introductions as we already know each other (quite intimately in fact). I just said they are not friends coz they are not my friends . I do not have friends like that.

By the way I did not say that I want them to please me. Its more like manners. Or I guess manners doesn't matter to you as well?

Lesson #1: I happen to know them. Like you said, you dun know me as well so who are you to come to my blog and judge me? Whoever you are.

Lesson #2: I just hope it rains...is that cursing? LOL, yeah it came back to me coz its raining cats and dogs when I wanna go canteen this morn. Bugger! Thanks for the tips!

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