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There are so many questions running through my head.....these questions are actually addressed to me by my friend

1. Would I mind if my partner earns less than me?

The answer is that it really depends on the situation. Look at it this way, if my husband chose to stay in a low pay job becoz he is afraid of more work responsibilities in a higher paid job, then yes, I do mind. But if he had already tried his best, then I wont mind. As long as he is not trying his best and that it is not his intetion to stay on at the low pay job, then I guess that is enough for me

2. Would I mind if I have higher qualifications that my partner?

Call me old fashion but yes I guess that I do mind. Simple as that.....

3. Would I mind if my partner comes home smelling of motor oil and dirty finer nails (you know..with all the works)?

Hmmm....this is a tricky question....I dun think that I will mind...that much....see he is earning a living and he is dirty becoz he is working and he had no other choice but to get his hands dirty. How can anyone willingly get their hands dirty? I believe that they work so hard to support their families....how can anyone begrudge their partners for that?

Well, he asked me a lot of things...just that I had forgotten (he asked me back on Sunday, how can I possibly remember everything?) It's been so long since I last had such a heart to heart talk with this friend.....We chatted out in the open standing there for about 3 hours standing....its really good talking with him, charing our very different views and our different paths in lives and the different choices that we would have made given the same situation. Hehehe...we did agree on one thing though...we both agreed that I look very attractive..hehe...well he mentioned it and I agree with him.....(hey it's not very polite to disagree with people....)

I haven been studying at all for my CPA...thats not so good.....my exam is less than a month away and I still haven started my studies yet...I hope that its not too hard.....hmmm...I gotta study man...gotta concentrate more....

I have a new theory....we do know which are the rite things to do...but then its hard to do the right thing sometimes....see I know the right thing to do is to study but then it is very hard to study as I feel so tired after work and my jog just now....

Went for lunch at Eacapade with my colleagues and her husband....hehe..it was his treat....LUCKY....since it was puasa, escapade wasn't as packed as usual....

Today is Kevin's birthday...time really passes by very fast.....hehe....I wish him Happy Birthday.....and that may all his wishes will come true (becareful of wat u wish for)....hehe
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