The truth is that relationships end.
That is why whenever someone change their relationship status in facebook, I always, always cringe for them. I dunno for some. But for me the status of my relationship is very private. If for any reasons, my relationship status change, I don't think that I'll make an update in facebook (especially facebook) It just feels all wrong.
I see some of my "friends' updating their relationship status and flaunts their new found relationships only to change their status to single again after a few short weeks. And not to mention that they will be posting anything that is so emo as their status. To me, its like breaking up in public. It truly is (depending on how many friends you added on fb). Then, in order to wipe your memory clean of this so called jerk, you have to delete him from your photo albums published. Its a lot of work.
So sometimes, wont it be a wiser thing to do is to keep your relationship quiet when its at the beginning? Savor it. Keep all the sweet memories to yourself. I know how it is like to want to announce to the whole world that you are in love. But think of the consequences.......if you are ever to breakup in just a few short months and then having to answer to a lot of ppl (bo liaw ppl at that) why did you breakup? what happened? Its all ok coming from good friends or people who really care about you......coming from people who are just plain gossipers.....well everyone knows how that feels.
Instead of sharing your whole life with people who might not even genuinely care for you, why not just share the details with just your good friends and families who truly care and love you? After its the stamp of approval from these people in your life that you truly seek and not those false peeps who pretend to care.
Just one little advice from me to make your life so much more simple.
Cheers!
That is why whenever someone change their relationship status in facebook, I always, always cringe for them. I dunno for some. But for me the status of my relationship is very private. If for any reasons, my relationship status change, I don't think that I'll make an update in facebook (especially facebook) It just feels all wrong.
I see some of my "friends' updating their relationship status and flaunts their new found relationships only to change their status to single again after a few short weeks. And not to mention that they will be posting anything that is so emo as their status. To me, its like breaking up in public. It truly is (depending on how many friends you added on fb). Then, in order to wipe your memory clean of this so called jerk, you have to delete him from your photo albums published. Its a lot of work.
So sometimes, wont it be a wiser thing to do is to keep your relationship quiet when its at the beginning? Savor it. Keep all the sweet memories to yourself. I know how it is like to want to announce to the whole world that you are in love. But think of the consequences.......if you are ever to breakup in just a few short months and then having to answer to a lot of ppl (bo liaw ppl at that) why did you breakup? what happened? Its all ok coming from good friends or people who really care about you......coming from people who are just plain gossipers.....well everyone knows how that feels.
Instead of sharing your whole life with people who might not even genuinely care for you, why not just share the details with just your good friends and families who truly care and love you? After its the stamp of approval from these people in your life that you truly seek and not those false peeps who pretend to care.
Just one little advice from me to make your life so much more simple.
Cheers!
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