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Happiness?

When everything is going smooth, no one will ever find out who their real friends are. Its only when you are down and needs something that all these 'friends' are no where to be found.

How do you deal with these people?

Sure, you will feel extreme disappointment. Maybe tinged with sadness as well.

But then live goes one and the only thing that you can do for yourself is open your eyes to these so called friends and make no mistakes in thinking that they will be there when you are down.

Moral of the story?

Do not place your happiness in the hands of others. Do what makes you happy and not do what makes others happy. That is the favour you can do for yourself.
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Josephine said…
I definitely agree with you. My hubby has many frenz from young & old. But when he was in deep shit, nobody could lend a hand, not even his own siblings. In our lifetime, we may be able to find 1 or maybe 2 (max) those whom we call "friend for life". These people are those who stick with you thru thick & thin, like your husbands or wives. As for me, I've only 1 friend for life who now already migrated to UK. What a pity....
8:04 AM
Artowawa said…
Yeah Jessie, its sad but true. Many ppl will come to you when you are successful and got something to give them.

But when you are down.....you will find these 'friends' suddenly too busy to even return your call.

So be mindful of these ppl.
8:09 AM
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