Love is ?

I have been wondering........

There has and always will have a big hoo ha over the word 'love'.

How does 2 person in this whole wide world meets and then decide that they had fallen in love?

For me, to be in love with another person, I guess its a matter of the right time, the right place and the right environment. But what happens if the environment changes? The conditions that surrounds you that made you love that person in the first place. Will the so-called love still be there? Will your love for that person be a constant when there are so many variables?

There are so many people out there, how can you be so determined that this is the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with?

Someone once told me to choose to marry the person that you cant live without. But we humans have survived for so long that the only thing that remains a constant is that we are highly adaptable species.

So how do you know that this person is the person that you cant live without.

I know of one guy whose wife passed on and he was so sad about it. But it was only a couple of months later that he got married to another woman. I am not saying that he should spend the rest of his days alone but his wife is the one person that he really loves and he misses her so sorely when she passed on. But yet, he could get over his love for his belated wife in just a few months when they had spent a few decades together as husband and wife.

Ironic..... isn't it?

ok ok, I am feeling a wee bit melancholy. (alright....make that a lot) I think part of this gloom, doom and boom is due partly to the fact that I havent receive my letter yet. So ignore my rant for now (if it even makes sense). I hope I have some good news to write about shortly. (By shortly I mean by tomorrow.)